Qiran
Islam encourages the young Muslims to get married and have children. The Prophet [sallallaahu alayhi wasallam] mentioned, ‘O younger people, whoever of you may afford it, let him get married. It helps restrain the eyes and preserve the private parts. But when he can not afford it, let him quick, for it really works as a preventative.’
He additionally stated, ‘Marry fertile ladies, I will likely be showing off your massive variety of the day of resurrection.’
Selecting the Right SpouseThese are the primary traits that must be sought when selecting a partner:
Deen: It is the very first thing to search for in response to the Prophet’s instructions. This does not mean choosing any Muslim but the one who applies Islam throughout his every day life, not just a nominal Muslim.
Conduct: A woman or a man who has good manners is considered as a grace from Allah. The Prophet [sallallaahu alayhi wasallam] stated, ‘There’s nothing extra helpful to a believer next to the concern of Allah than a pious wife. When he instructions her, she obeys him; and when he looks at her, she pleases him; and when he swears by Allah that she ought to do a factor, she would; and when he’s away, she guards herself and his property.’
Qiran also applies to the husband with regard to good conduct and concern of Allah, for elevating youngsters requires the efforts of both dad and mom not simply one in all them. Since man is the top of the family, it’s his responsibility to resolve on a pious lady to be the mother of his children. In qiran Allah states, ‘O you who believer, protect yourselves and your families from a fireplace whose gasoline is man and stones.’ (sixty six:6)
And He says, ‘And enjoin as-Salaat (the prayer) on your beloved ones, and be patient in providing them [i.e. the Salaat - prayers].’
When Allah’s Messenger [sallallaahu alayhi wasallam] was requested concerning the best sins, he replied, ‘You want to affiliate an equal to Allah while He created you, that you simply kill your youngster out of fear that he would eat from your food, and that you simply commit adultery along with your neighbour’s wife.’ (al-Bukhari and Muslim)
The prohibition of killing one’s kids is a mandatory consequence of getting mercy for them and defending their physique, minds and soul from harm.